tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515713317068251331.post3594979780691422477..comments2024-02-02T00:21:02.687+13:00Comments on stargazer: negotiating differencesstargazerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00430290445762377335noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515713317068251331.post-39220632658389175502011-05-28T14:18:32.070+12:002011-05-28T14:18:32.070+12:00Except for the homophobes and racists. I hope one...Except for the homophobes and racists. I hope one day they will just be gone. And I will never negotiate with them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515713317068251331.post-19923955160679953042011-05-26T19:03:24.356+12:002011-05-26T19:03:24.356+12:00so true. but there also has to be a willingness t...so true. but there also has to be a willingness to take that first step, and to realise that difference can be managed if there's respect & goodwill.stargazerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430290445762377335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515713317068251331.post-51712997097635779222011-05-26T07:52:29.279+12:002011-05-26T07:52:29.279+12:00I think we need to realise that there is no final ...I think we need to realise that there is no final point of happy ever after, but an on-going series of negotations and renegotiations, gaining understanding and losing it and reworking it, making compromises that work, then making them again as they start to break down, and remaking them, in an endless iterative process of living together.Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14182573274494086468noreply@blogger.com